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\u00d6zellikle toplumsal olaylarda son zamanlarda ad\u0131ndan s\u0131kl\u0131kla bahsedilen “Stockholm Sendromu”nun hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkiledi\u011fi ve aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddette ba\u015f akt\u00f6rler aras\u0131nda yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bildirildi.<\/p>\n
Ruh Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Uzman\u0131 Psikiyatrist S\u00fcmer \u00d6ztanr\u0131\u00f6ver, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamada, Stockholm\u2019de bir banka soyguncusuna kar\u015f\u0131 rehinelerin geli\u015ftirdi\u011fi ba\u011flanma ve yard\u0131m etme davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na atfedilerek tan\u0131mlanan Stockholm Sendromu\u2019nun, toplumda \u00e7ok yayg\u0131n, ciddi, \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 olabilen bir bozukluk oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
“Aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddette Stockholm Sendromu, bir numaral\u0131 akt\u00f6rd\u00fcr” diyen \u00d6ztanr\u0131\u00f6ver, “\u0130stismarc\u0131 anne-baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funda, \u015fiddet g\u00f6ren kad\u0131nda e\u015fine kar\u015f\u0131 geli\u015febilir. Travma Sonras\u0131 Stres Bozuklu\u011fu (TSSB) belirtileri g\u00f6sterirler” dedi.<\/p>\n
Stockholm Sendromu\u2019nun geli\u015fmesi i\u00e7in d\u00f6rt ko\u015fulun oldu\u011funu ve bunlardan ilkinin hayati tehlikenin olmas\u0131 oldu\u011funu ifade eden \u00d6ztanr\u0131\u00f6ver, “Sald\u0131rgan, \u00f6fke an\u0131nda tamamen kontrolden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kurban, \u00f6l\u00fcmle burun buruna ya\u015far. S\u0131k s\u0131k hastanelik edilir. Sald\u0131rgan, kurban\u0131n ayr\u0131lma iste\u011fine kar\u015f\u0131 s\u0131k s\u0131k \u00f6l\u00fcmle tehdit eder. Kurban\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funu, anne-babas\u0131n\u0131 bazen de kendini \u00f6ld\u00fcrmekle tehdit eder” \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u00d6ztanr\u0131\u00f6ver, ikinci ko\u015fulun, kurban\u0131n d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyadan soyutlanmas\u0131 oldu\u011funu ifade ederek, \u015funlar\u0131 kaydetti:<\/p>\n
“Sald\u0131rgan a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7t\u0131r ve kurban\u0131 ailesinden, arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan, i\u015finden, sosyal hayat\u0131ndan k\u0131s\u0131tlar. Kurban\u0131n yard\u0131m isteyece\u011fi sosyal destek a\u011flar\u0131 biter. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc ko\u015ful, kurban ortamdan ka\u00e7amayaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131r. \u00c7aresizlik hisleri bu ki\u015filerde \u00e7ocukla\u015fma e\u011filimine (regresyona) yol a\u00e7ar. Ailesinden \u015fiddet g\u00f6ren 3-5 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocuk gibidir. Evden gitmeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemez bile. Fiziksel-cinsel-duygusal \u015fiddet kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda donuk ve tepkisiz kalabilir. D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc ko\u015fulda ise, sald\u0131rgan bazen yak\u0131n davran\u0131r. Kurban\u0131 \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fini, sevdi\u011fi i\u00e7in k\u0131skand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, e\u011fer do\u011fru davran\u0131rsa her \u015feyin yoluna girece\u011fini s\u00f6yler. Sald\u0131rgan bazen dayaktan sonra a\u011flayabilir ve kurbandan \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyebilir. Ancak bu kendini hatal\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in de\u011fildir. Sald\u0131rgana g\u00f6re su\u00e7lu, her zaman kurband\u0131r. Kurbanda art\u0131k travmatik ba\u011flanma geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. Hatan\u0131n kendisinde oldu\u011funa inanmaya ba\u015flar. Sald\u0131rgan\u0131n, ge\u00e7mi\u015findeki travmalar\u0131 nedeniyle \u00f6yle oldu\u011funa ve asl\u0131nda \u2019iyi biri\u2019 oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r. Ona ac\u0131r, onu kurtarmak ister ve \u00e7evresindekilere kar\u015f\u0131 onu savunur. Bir g\u00fcn sald\u0131rgan\u0131n \u2019d\u00fczelece\u011fine\u2019 inan\u0131r. Sald\u0131rganlar ise olgunla\u015fmam\u0131\u015f (immat\u00fcr) ki\u015filerdir. \u00d6fke kontrol\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan 3-5 ya\u015flar\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun duygusal olgunlu\u011funa sahiptirler. Benmerkezci ve ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 ki\u015filerdir. \u0130lgi ve sevgi beklentileri a\u015f\u0131r\u0131d\u0131r. Hemen daima kurban\u0131n hatal\u0131 oldu\u011funa inan\u0131rlar ve onu kontrol etmeye, de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye, d\u00fczeltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Kendilerini hatal\u0131 g\u00f6rmedikleri i\u00e7in psikiyatrik yard\u0131m almak istemezler.”<\/p>\n
“\u00d6NLEMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N TOPLUMSAL FARKINDALIK OLU\u015eTURULMALI”<\/p>\n
Stockholm Sendromu\u2019nu \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in \u00f6ncelikle toplumsal fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n olu\u015fturulmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini vurgulayan \u00d6ztanr\u0131\u00f6ver, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
“Neredeyse canl\u0131 bir bomba ile ya\u015fayan bu ki\u015filerin, g\u00fcvenliklerinin acilen sa\u011flanmas\u0131 gerekir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Stockholm Sendromlu ki\u015filer duygusal a\u00e7\u0131dan 3-5 ya\u015flar\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocuk kadar ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bu y\u00fczden yapt\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131n, \u015fiddete u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuklara uygulanan prosed\u00fcrle ayn\u0131 olmas\u0131, yani \u015fikayete ba\u011fl\u0131 olmamas\u0131 gerekir. Bu sendromdan muzdarip ki\u015filere travma terapisi yap\u0131larak psikolojik yaralar\u0131n\u0131n sar\u0131lmas\u0131 ve kendine g\u00fcvenlerinin yeniden in\u015fa edilmesi gerekir. Sald\u0131rgan\u0131n da psikiyatrik hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n mutlaka te\u015fhis edilmesi ve tedavisi yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Sald\u0131rgan, tedaviyi talep etmeyece\u011fi i\u00e7in de bu konudaki hukuki d\u00fczenlemelerin acilen yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekmektedir.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
RUH SA\u011eLI\u011eI VE HASTALIKLARI UZMANI PS\u0130K\u0130YATR\u0130ST S\u00dcMER \u00d6ZTANRI\u00d6VER, YAPTI\u011eI A\u00c7IKLAMADA, STOCKHOLM\u2019DE B\u0130R BANKA SOYGUNCUSUNA KAR\u015eI REH\u0130NELER\u0130N GEL\u0130\u015eT\u0130RD\u0130\u011e\u0130 BA\u011eLANMA VE YARDIM ETME DAVRANI\u015eINA ATFED\u0130LEREK TANIMLANAN STOCKHOLM SENDROMU\u2019NUN, TOPLUMDA \u00c7OK YAYGIN, C\u0130DD\u0130, \u00d6L\u00dcMC\u00dcL SONU\u00c7LARI OLAB\u0130LEN B\u0130R BOZUKLUK OLDU\u011eUNU S\u00d6YLED\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,20],"tags":[23086,2159,6644,12721,19149,23087,23085],"class_list":["post-127604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-saglik","category-turkiye","tag-stockholm","tag-aile","tag-aktor","tag-bas","tag-ici","tag-sendromu","tag-siddette"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127604","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=127604"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/127604\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=127604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=127604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=127604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}