Diyanetten mutlu evlilik i\u00e7in \u00f6neriler… Londra Din Hizmetleri M\u00fc\u015favirli\u011fi’nde g\u00f6revli uzman Mustafa Ko\u00e7, Diyanet’in ayl\u0131k dergisinde aile i\u00e7i pozitif ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerine bir makale kaleme ald\u0131. Ko\u00e7, ideal evlilik i\u00e7in kar\u0131 koca aras\u0131ndaki ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n en fazla 4-5 olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini savundu.<\/p>\n
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– \u00d6NEML\u0130 OLAN PS\u0130KOLOJ\u0130K YA\u015e:\u00a0<\/strong>Ko\u00e7, ‘Evlilikte \u00f6nemli olan bireylerin biyolojik de\u011fil, psikolojik ya\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 ya\u015fta olan e\u015flerden birinin \u00e7ocuk karakterli, di\u011ferinin olgun bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahip olmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr’ yorumu yapt\u0131. Toplumda kocan\u0131n, kar\u0131s\u0131ndan ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi gibi bir anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n hakim oldu\u011funu dile getiren Ko\u00e7 \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti: ‘Buna g\u00f6re kad\u0131n i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcsel olarak korunmay\u0131 ve sahiplenilmeyi; erkek de korumay\u0131 ve sahip olmay\u0131 ister. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla kad\u0131ndan ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck olan erkek, b\u00f6yle bir ili\u015fkiyi daha rahat y\u00fcr\u00fctebilir. Evlilikte ideal olan, ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n az olmas\u0131 veya erke\u011fin kad\u0131ndan en fazla d\u00f6rt-be\u015f ya\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n – SORUN YARATAB\u0130L\u0130R:\u00a0<\/strong>\u00d6te yandan erke\u011fin, kad\u0131ndan ya\u015f\u00e7a \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck olmas\u0131 da psikolojik olarak baz\u0131 problemler ortaya \u00e7\u0131karabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ya\u015f\u0131n psikolojik ihtiya\u00e7 ve beklentileri birbirinden farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Ya\u015f fark\u0131 artt\u0131k\u00e7a psikolojik ihtiya\u00e7 ve beklentilerdeki farkl\u0131l\u0131klar da artacak ve bu durum evlilikte uyum s\u00fcrecini zorla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r. Asl\u0131nda teorik olarak b\u00f6yle bir tespit yap\u0131lsa da evlenecek \u00e7iftler, evlilikle ilgili psikolojik olgunlu\u011fa eri\u015ftikten sonra aralar\u0131ndaki ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok da \u00f6nemi yoktur.’<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kaynanay\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fmaya katmay\u0131n<\/strong> Diyanetten mutlu evlilik i\u00e7in \u00f6neriler… Londra Din Hizmetleri M\u00fc\u015favirli\u011fi’nde g\u00f6revli uzman Mustafa Ko\u00e7, Diyanet’in ayl\u0131k dergisinde aile i\u00e7i pozitif ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerine bir makale kaleme ald\u0131. Ko\u00e7, ideal evlilik i\u00e7in kar\u0131 koca aras\u0131ndaki ya\u015f fark\u0131n\u0131n en fazla 4-5 olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini savundu. – \u00d6NEML\u0130 OLAN PS\u0130KOLOJ\u0130K YA\u015e:\u00a0Ko\u00e7, ‘Evlilikte \u00f6nemli olan bireylerin biyolojik de\u011fil, psikolojik ya\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[48,848,1355,20992,1356,904,20991,850,849,47,611,662,913,840],"class_list":["post-12820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-turkiye","tag-alexa","tag-dadas","tag-erkek-en-fazla-4-5-yas-buyuk-olmali","tag-erzurum","tag-evlilik","tag-fikra","tag-firfirik","tag-flas","tag-fotograf","tag-google","tag-haber","tag-haberler","tag-son-haber","tag-yahoo"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12820"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12820\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\n‘E\u015fler, aile i\u00e7erisinde problemleri, birbirilerine a\u00e7\u0131k y\u00fcreklilikle anlatmal\u0131d\u0131r. Aile ya\u015fam\u0131nda baz\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n olmas\u0131 do\u011fal. Ancak tart\u0131\u015fma s\u00fcrecinde d\u00fcr\u00fcst ve a\u00e7\u0131k olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. E\u015fler kesinlikle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 su\u00e7lamalardan ve k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131narak birbirlerini dinleyebilmelidir. \u00d6zellikle kaynana ve kay\u0131npederler m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olduk\u00e7a \u00f6zel tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda tutulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Aile i\u00e7erisinde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan bir anla\u015fmazl\u0131ktan dolay\u0131 anne-babalar, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yan\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 hakaret ve a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamalardan kesinlikle ka\u00e7\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ya\u015famsal \u00f6neme sahip konular geciktirilmeden \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmeli.’<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"