Nil\u00fcfer Belediyesi\u2019nin \u201cKad\u0131n Hayata Yak\u0131n\u201d program\u0131na kat\u0131lan M\u00fcjde Ar, annesi Aysel G\u00fcrel\u2019in \u015fiirlerinden olu\u015fan \u201cNe Kavgam Bitti Ne Sevdam\u201d adl\u0131 kitap \u00fczerine s\u00f6yle\u015fti.<\/p>\n
2010 y\u0131l\u0131ndan bu yana binlerce kad\u0131n\u0131, onlarca yazarla bulu\u015fturan \u201cKad\u0131n Hayata Yak\u0131n\u201d faaliyetine bu kez oyuncu M\u00fcjde Ar konuk oldu. Programa Nil\u00fcfer Belediye Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Mustafa Bozbey, M\u00fcjde Ar\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi, eski bakanlardan Ercan Karaka\u015f ile Nil\u00fcfer\u2019in 28 mahallesinden 800\u2019\u00fc a\u015fk\u0131n kad\u0131n kat\u0131ld\u0131. Aysel G\u00fcrel\u2019in hayat\u0131ndan kesitlerin yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 belgesel g\u00f6sterimiyle ba\u015flayan etkinlik, duygulu anlara sahne oldu. M\u00fcjde Ar, hem annesi Aysel G\u00fcrel\u2019in \u015fiirlerinden olu\u015fan \u201cNe Sevdam Bitti Ne Kavgam\u201d adl\u0131 kitab\u0131 \u00fczerine kad\u0131nlarla s\u00f6yle\u015ft,i hem de annesiyle olan hat\u0131ralar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015ft\u0131. M\u00fcjde Ar, Nil\u00fcferli kad\u0131nlara \u201cHo\u015f geldiniz Aysel\u2019in kad\u0131nlar\u0131\u201d diyerek seslendi.<\/p>\n
Ar, \u201cBen, annemin k\u0131z\u0131y\u0131m. B\u00fct\u00fcn filmler oradan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Ba\u015fka bir ailede olsayd\u0131m, Aysel gibi bir annem olmasayd\u0131, oyunculu\u011fu se\u00e7er miydim, bu filmlere cesaret edebilir miydim bilmiyorum\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Aysel G\u00fcrel\u2019in, hayat\u0131 boyunca kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve erke\u011fe sitem etti\u011fini belirten M\u00fcjde Ar, \u201cA\u015fk hik\u00e2yeleri, \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 da hep kad\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131ndad\u0131r ve erke\u011fe sitem vard\u0131r. Annemin en \u00e7ok kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerden birisi sitem ve sevdad\u0131r. Aysel G\u00fcrel\u2019e g\u00f6re a\u015fk ba\u015fka bir \u015feydir. Ama iki insan aras\u0131nda as\u0131l olmas\u0131 gereken sevdad\u0131r. \u2018A\u015fk unutulur, sevda s\u00fcrer\u2019 derdi annem. \u0130syank\u00e2r bir karakteri vard\u0131. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir s\u00fcr\u00fc olay, Aysel\u2019i isyanc\u0131, meselelere ba\u015fka bir g\u00f6zle bakmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretiyor\u201d diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ok zor bir \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6nemi ge\u00e7irdiklerini s\u00f6yleyen M\u00fcjde Ar, 1960\u2019l\u0131 y\u0131llarda T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de iki \u00e7ocuklu ve \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir kad\u0131n\u0131n, bek\u00e2r olarak hayat\u0131n\u0131 kazanmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok zor oldu\u011funu anlatt\u0131. M\u00fcjde Ar \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ok zorluklarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k. Annem, erkekten \u00e7ok erkek gibi sava\u015ft\u0131. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla belki de g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc oradan al\u0131yordu. Zorluklara kar\u015f\u0131 yenilmemek. Sonradan \u015fark\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fc yazmaya ba\u015flad\u0131 ama bir tiyatrocu maa\u015f\u0131yla iki \u00e7ocu\u011fu yeti\u015ftirmek, okutabilmek \u00e7ok zordu. \u2018H\u0131rs\u0131z olmay\u0131n, namussuz olmay\u0131n\u2019 s\u00f6z\u00fc hala kulaklar\u0131mda. \u2018Hep ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00fczerinde durun\u2019 ba\u015f s\u00f6z\u00fcyd\u00fc. \u00d6l\u00fcnceye kadar yazd\u0131. En son dizleri titriyordu. Titreye titreye yazd\u0131. T\u00fcrk\u00e7eye de \u00e7ok hakimdi. Ayn\u0131 zamanda bir T\u00fcrkolog\u2019du.\u201d<\/p>\n
M\u00fcjde Ar\u2019a b\u00fct\u00fcn kad\u0131nlar ad\u0131na te\u015fekk\u00fcr eden Nil\u00fcfer Belediye Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Mustafa Bozbey de, \u201cAysel G\u00fcrel\u2019in dedi\u011fi gibi kavgam\u0131z devam edecek. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemesi i\u00e7in de sevdam\u0131z devam edecek\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u0130L\u00dcFER BELED\u0130YES\u0130\u2019N\u0130N \u201cKADIN HAYATA YAKIN\u201d PROGRAMINA KATILAN M\u00dcJDE AR, ANNES\u0130 AYSEL G\u00dcREL\u2019\u0130N \u015e\u0130\u0130RLER\u0130NDEN OLU\u015eAN \u201cNE KAVGAM B\u0130TT\u0130 NE SEVDAM\u201d ADLI K\u0130TAP \u00dcZER\u0130NE S\u00d6YLE\u015eT\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[13181,7891,42715,73204,1013],"class_list":["post-1323471","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-magazin","tag-anlatti","tag-annesi","tag-aysel","tag-gureli","tag-mujde"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1323471","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1323471"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1323471\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1323471"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1323471"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1323471"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}