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Psikiyatrist\/ Psikoterapist Yrd. Do\u00e7. Dr. R\u0131dvan \u00dcney, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f bozuklu\u011funa yol a\u00e7abilece\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\nPsikiyatrist\/ Psikoterapist Yrd. Do\u00e7. Dr. R\u0131dvan \u00dcney, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f bozuklu\u011funa yol a\u00e7abilece\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7iftler aras\u0131nda en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar aras\u0131nda k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n yer ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden Yrd. Do\u00e7. Dr. R\u0131dvan \u00dcney, \u201cK\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n bazen sonu\u00e7lar\u0131 \u015fiddete, cinayete kadar varabilmektedir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n nereye kadar normal, nereden sonra sorunlu bir durum oldu\u011funu anlamak gerekir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen bir davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fildir. Ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ba\u015flamas\u0131yla bir \u015feyleri payla\u015fmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz ilginin eksildi\u011fini fark etti\u011fimiz zaman k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yani haset ba\u015flar. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygusu 2-3 ya\u015flar\u0131nda geli\u015fmeye ba\u015flar. Ya\u015fam\u0131n ilk y\u0131llar\u0131ndaki k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n nedeni daha \u00e7ok sevginin payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 nedeniyle olur. Babay\u0131 anneyle payla\u015fmak ya da anneyi babayla payla\u015fmak ilk k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131kt\u0131r. Sonras\u0131nda karde\u015f d\u00fcnyaya gelir bu kez karde\u015fle anne ya da baban\u0131n sevgisini payla\u015fmak k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015flat\u0131r. Hatta karde\u015f k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fam boyu s\u00fcrebilmektedir\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen bir davran\u0131\u015f olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ergenlikle ba\u015flayan ve ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131\u011fa kadar uzanan s\u00fcre\u00e7te devam etti\u011fini belirten Yrd. Do\u00e7. Dr. R\u0131dvan \u00dcney, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n
\u201cSevgili ya da e\u015f k\u0131skan\u0131lmaya ba\u015flan\u0131r. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle ili\u015fkilerde do\u011fal kar\u015f\u0131lanan bir durumdur. Hi\u00e7 k\u0131skanmamak nadiren olabilir. Ancak bunu bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi sevginin, a\u015fk\u0131n olmamas\u0131 olarak yorumlayabilir. Ger\u00e7ekten de hi\u00e7 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fkilerin bir k\u0131sm\u0131nda, ki\u015finin e\u015fine-sevgilisine ilgisinin olmamas\u0131 g\u00f6zlemlenebilir. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n nereye kadar normal kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi, her zaman tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kad\u0131nda da erkekte de a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k hayat\u0131 ya\u015fanmaz k\u0131lar. Bunu bir davran\u0131\u015f bozuklu\u011fu olarak de\u011ferlendirebiliriz\u201c.<\/p>\n
Yrd. Do\u00e7. Dr. R\u0131dvan \u00dcney, e\u015f veya sevgilinin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 (anormal) k\u0131skan\u00e7 olmas\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u00f6yle anla\u015f\u0131labilece\u011fini belirtti:<\/p>\n
\u201c1. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k nedeniyle aran\u0131zda kavgalar ve tart\u0131\u015fmalar olur. 2. Fiziksel veya s\u00f6zel \u015fiddet meydana gelebilir. 3. Neredeyse her \u015feyi kan\u0131t saymaya ba\u015flar. 4. Aran\u0131zda konu\u015fulan tek konu k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k olur. 5. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k krizleri, ili\u015fkinin sonlanmas\u0131na neden olabilir. 6. T\u00fcm sosyal ili\u015fkilerinizi bozar, di\u011fer insanlarla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmenize izin vermez. Hatta bazen hemcinslerinizle bile g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmenizi yasaklayabilir. 7. Giyiminize ve makyaj\u0131n\u0131za a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fcdahale eder. 8. Sosyal medya hesaplar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kapatt\u0131r\u0131r. 9. Telefonlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 dinletebilir. 10. S\u0131k s\u0131k telefonla nerde oldu\u011funuzu sorar. 11. \u0130\u015finize ani bask\u0131nlar yapar. 12. Tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za evden \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131z\u0131 istemez. Hatta her yere sizinle birlikte gitmek ister. 13. Telefon ve kredi kart\u0131 d\u00f6k\u00fcmlerinizi inceler. 14. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u015f\u00fcpheci tutumlar\u0131 olur. 15. Eve herhangi bir gerek\u00e7eyle ge\u00e7 kalman\u0131z ciddi kavgalara neden olur. 16. S\u00fcrekli masum oldu\u011funuzu kan\u0131tlamak durumunda kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. 17. Bazen hi\u00e7 akl\u0131n\u0131za gelmeyecek, tuhaf ya da komik aldatma senaryolar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 dile getirir. E\u011fer b\u00f6yle sorunlar ya\u015f\u0131yorsan\u0131z \u00f6ncelikle ona biraz daha fazla ilgi g\u00f6sterin. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k konular\u0131nda a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tart\u0131\u015fmac\u0131 olmay\u0131n. Onunla biraz daha fazla zaman ge\u00e7irin. Ancak bunlara ra\u011fmen de\u011fi\u015fiklik yoksa mutlaka e\u015finizle-sevgilinizle bir psikiyatrist ya da psikologdan beraberce yard\u0131m almal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. K\u0131skanma \u00fclkemizde \u00f6nemli bir sorundur. \u00dclkemizdeki bir bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmada; e\u015fe uygulanan \u015fiddetin y\u00fczde70\u2019i k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k nedeniyle oldu\u011fu ortaya konmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
E\u015fler aras\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n nedenleri: 1. Ki\u015finin kendine g\u00fcven sorunu. 2. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanma. 3. Baz\u0131 ki\u015filik \u00f6zellikleri. 4. De\u011fersiz hissetme. 5. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131 ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lma. 6. E\u015fin \u015f\u00fcphelendiren davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131. 7. Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n sevgisini ifade etmede eksiklikleri. 8. Terkedilme ile ilgili a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 korkular. 9. Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki ile kendisini s\u00fcrekli k\u0131yaslama. 10. Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131 tehdit olarak alg\u0131lama. 11. \u015eizofreni gibi baz\u0131 muhakeme bozuklu\u011funa neden olan hastal\u0131klar. 12. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 alkol alma. 13. Uyu\u015fturucu madde kullanma.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
PS\u0130K\u0130YATR\u0130ST\/ PS\u0130KOTERAP\u0130ST YRD. DO\u00c7. DR. RIDVAN \u00dcNEY, A\u015eIRI KISKAN\u00c7LI\u011eIN DAVRANI\u015e BOZUKLU\u011eUNA YOL A\u00c7AB\u0130LECE\u011e\u0130N\u0130 BEL\u0130RTT\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,20],"tags":[23126,12732,35256,1214],"class_list":["post-200066","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-saglik","category-turkiye","tag-bozuklugu","tag-davranis","tag-kiskanclik","tag-olabilir"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/200066","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=200066"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/200066\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=200066"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=200066"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=200066"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}