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Psikiyatrist Dr. Sabri Yurdakul, s\u0131nav \u00f6ncesi ba\u015fkalar\u0131 ile k\u0131yaslanman\u0131n, \u00f6\u011frencilerde kayg\u0131ya ve su\u00e7luluk duygusuna sebep oldu\u011funu, bunun da ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 engelledi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 s\u0131nava haz\u0131rlanan ailelere \u00f6nemli uyar\u0131 ve tavsiyelerde bulunan Yaprak Psikiyatrik ve Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Merkezi kurucusu Psikiyatrist Dr. Sabri Yurdakul, s\u0131nav \u00f6ncesi ailelerin yapmas\u0131 gereken temel g\u00f6revin, \u015fimdiye kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 nas\u0131l olursa olsun \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 olumlu dil kullanmak oldu\u011funu belirtti. Yurdakul, \u201cHata yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirler, istedikleri kadar ba\u015far\u0131 g\u00f6sterememi\u015f olabilirler ama \u015fu andan sonra onlara olumsuz bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemenin, serzeni\u015fte bulunman\u0131n bir faydas\u0131 olmayacakt\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Ailelerin s\u0131nav konusunda yapmalar\u0131 gereken en do\u011fru \u015feyin, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na, bug\u00fcne kadar elinden gelen gayreti g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemeleri olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden Yurdakul, \u201cB\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorsak bile bunu ona belli etmemeliyiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k yap\u0131lacak yeni bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, \u00f6fkelenip, sinirlenip ya da kayg\u0131 duyarak bildiklerini de s\u0131nava yans\u0131tamamas\u0131na neden olabiliriz\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
“MORAL BOZMAMAK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N YORUM YAPMAYIN”<\/p>\n
Psikiyatrist Dr. Sabri Yurdakul, ailelerin iyi ya da k\u00f6t\u00fc yorum yapmak yerine, bundan sonra \u00f6nemli olan\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131navda en iyi \u015fekilde g\u00f6sterebilmek oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131labilecek s\u00f6z ve davran\u0131\u015flardan uzak durmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini kaydetti. Yurdakul, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za \u2018sen \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131n, inan\u0131yorum ki ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olacaks\u0131n\u2019 dedi\u011fimizde, \u2018\u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ama ya ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamazsam?\u2019 diye kayg\u0131lanacak, e\u011fer \u2018\u00e7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131n ki, ne bekliyorsun?\u2019 \u015feklinde konu\u015fursak bu defa da \u2018zaten ailem bana g\u00fcvenmiyor ve inanm\u0131yor\u2019 deyip, moral bozuklu\u011fu ya\u015fayacaklard\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden en iyisi yorum yapmamakt\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n
“SINAVA S\u0130Z DE\u011e\u0130L, B\u0130R YAKININIZ G\u00d6T\u00dcRS\u00dcN”<\/p>\n
Bir di\u011fer \u00f6nemli konunun, ailelerin kendi kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yans\u0131tmamas\u0131 oldu\u011funu dile getiren Yurdakul, \u201cBunun en iyi yolu ise s\u0131nava giderken onlar\u0131 bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 ile g\u00f6ndermektir. E\u011fer birlikte gidersek beden dilimiz fark\u0131nda olmadan kayg\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 onlara yans\u0131taca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bizim yan\u0131m\u0131zda durduk\u00e7a kayg\u0131lar\u0131 artacakt\u0131r. \u2018Sen heyecanlanma\u2019 demenin de o anda \u00e7ok faydas\u0131 dokunmayacakt\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden s\u0131nav g\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz bir aile yak\u0131n\u0131 veya bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczle onlar\u0131 s\u0131nava g\u00f6ndermek en do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f olacakt\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201cASLA KIYASLAMA YAPMAYIN\u201d<\/p>\n
Ailelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamas\u0131n\u0131n fayda getirmeyece\u011fi gibi, ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 da olumsuz etkileyece\u011fini belirten Psikiyatrist Dr. Sabri Yurdakul, ailelere uyar\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u015fu s\u00f6zlerle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile k\u0131yaslamak, onlar\u0131n \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatmak da bir i\u015fe yaramayacak, aram\u0131z\u0131 bozmaktan \u00f6teye ge\u00e7meyecektir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara dikkat edersek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z s\u0131nava girecek, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p \u00f6\u011frendiklerinin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapacak ve \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6yle yapmazsak s\u0131nava demoralize bir \u015fekilde girip, kayg\u0131 ve su\u00e7luluk duygusu ile bildiklerini de yapamayacak ve sonu\u00e7ta alabilece\u011fi puanlardan daha k\u00f6t\u00fc sonu\u00e7lar alacakt\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
PS\u0130K\u0130YATR\u0130ST DR. SABR\u0130 YURDAKUL, SINAV \u00d6NCES\u0130 BA\u015eKALARI \u0130LE KIYASLANMANIN, \u00d6\u011eRENC\u0130LERDE KAYGIYA VE SU\u00c7LULUK DUYGUSUNA SEBEP OLDU\u011eUNU, BUNUN DA BA\u015eARIYI ENGELLED\u0130\u011e\u0130N\u0130 S\u00d6YLED\u0130.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12600],"tags":[52630,44111,12830,44112,13578,3008,35961],"class_list":["post-484130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-egitim-2","tag-cocugunuzu","tag-baskalari","tag-ile","tag-kiyaslamayin","tag-oncesi","tag-sinav","tag-yurdakul"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/484130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=484130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/484130\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=484130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=484130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.erzhaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=484130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}